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Personal Problems with Herpes

There are certain personal problems that often accompany herpes, but you either can avoid them or deal with them fairly easily if they arise. Whether you have herpes, have a likelihood of contracting it in the future, or are associated with people who do get herpes recurrences there are some important points you should be aware of.

You must remember that what the whole process comes down to is a process of adjustment—a physical adaptation over time and an emotional adjustment to living with the possibility of occasional disruptions in sexual freedom and spontaneity. And that’s all according to

Individuals with herpes fall into three categories and have distinct emotional responses. First, those who develop a recurrent infection with effects so minor as to scarcely affect their personal life at all, and whose main problem is occasional concern about prevention.

These people form the largest group by far. The fact that most people have been exposed to HSV I (on the face) but don’t have any kind of serious problem associated with it is a good indicator of what happens with most genital herpes infections as well. Depending on the interaction between virus load, resistance, immunity and type of person, the primary infection, symptoms are few and minor. Of course, an important adjunct to this is that there may A many people spreading herpes because they “have these little red marks once in a while which are no big deal”.  A little public education here would do an awful lot of good.

Then there are those who develop recurrences and who, with good information and counseling, take appropriate precautions, adjust their life-styles accordingly, and experience a minimum of disruption in their daily lives.

Lastly are those who have recurrences that affect their life-styles and freedom more seriously and increase their fears and anxieties in such a way as to present real and sometimes severe difficulties in adjustment. Learn more at

This article is written primarily for the third group, while it will educate the public at large about these personal issues.

Apart from the potential for physical complications, the major problem with herpes isn’t so much in the virus itself, but in the ways its presence can create fears, doubts, and disruptions in day-to-day living and planning, particularly in interpersonal relationships. Fortunately, these effects can be reduced significantly, even in cases where the initial impact of contracting herpes and contemplating recurrences is serious and difficult.

Herpes can cause problems in several ways. Fears about contagion, childbirth and physical complications are rational and are not to be dismissed too lightly. They can, however, as you have seen in the preceding chapters, be addressed rationally and dealt with. Unfortunately, the media has managed to fuel these fears to exaggerated proportions.

Sensational headlines like “Sex makes you sick” in the now defunct New York Soho News, and “Herpes: The New Sexual Leprosy” in Time magazine may make great press, but they also instill needless fear in people who have not contracted genital herpes, and murderous rage in‘ some of those who have! These kinds of stories tend to stir up and prolong anxieties about interpersonal difficulties, when in act such difficulties can be managed and dealt with quite efficiently. Lack of good information is also a culprit, as is the way in which information is presented to people. What is important is a recognition that the notion of “recurrent” carries with it an automatic need for good usable information to ‘alleviate understandable concerns about intimacy with others according to and

Emotional responses to the facts of herpes are very natural and must be put in the right perspective when information about herpes is presented. While we deal with some of the more serious side effects of herpes that you may run into, keep in mind that we are working always towards positive, fulfilling interpersonal success.

The emotional reactions to herpes can range all the‘ way from feeling isolated, withdrawing from others; becoming obsessed with herpes; feeling that herpes will invade all areas of your life; feeling embarrassed, guilty or ‘ shameful; to becoming depressed through feeling helpless thinking that relationships will be difficult, if not impossible, or that people will reject you.

It is natural that you should experience some or all of these feelings at one time or another, but unnatural if they persist for too long. However, that should not have to be the case, and won’t be if the feelings can be acknowledged and dealt with directly.

Pherazone Ultra ... Is This Pheromone Legal?

Using Pherazone has been an amazing experience for me. Vienna, I approach a woman telling her she's really cute while being out of breath myself.

My Pherazone User Experience

I slept in a shared dorm room, but during the afternoon, no one was there except me and her. I make some tea, we only have one cup. Her voluptuous lips touch my cup. As a young and inexperienced man I wish I was that cup. I looked at her. She looked back, I noticed myself starting getting shy, even though we sat like 3 meters apart. The first punch comes. Witaah! My body and dick yelled in unison. I had applied two dabs of Pherazone on my pulse points.

25 minutes go by and she is completely digging me. I could feel the magnetic attraction.

I didn't dare to look at her anymore. The pheromone attraction was so strong I didn’t even know what to do.  I didn't have any form of composure left. She asks: what's wrong? I still couldn't speak. Man, I feel the pressure even now. I told myself that I needed to speak. I needed to voice my desires. The voice didn't need to be strong, I allowed it to be any voice that I could muster. All I needed was a fucking voice.

I slowly start speaking and tell her that she looks me so deep in the eyes the whole time that I get really insecure. She asks calmly why I get insecure. I look at her brazen blue eyes and I tell her because she is one of the most attractive people that I ever saw in my entire life (still is!). Up until then I wasn't even able to see a flaw in her face and after 1 hour of looking so closely at it, I finally found one. Perfect faces with a very small flaw are the worst, because they gave me the hint of reliability but I felt clearly outmatched. The only thing I didn't do was eject or give up, for me this definitely was the definition of plowing. At this point I didn't only blush, my body got red and I got really warm and butterflies were raging like mad carnivorous horror insects, devouring the small amounts of validation I could detect. Check out Pherazone Ultra at

She replies that she's just being polite. Now that I'm thinking back about it, either she was really relaxed, really naive or playing me hard. I actually told her to stop and do it less, because I couldn't even talk -- I still stuttered and talked slowly at this point. She complied, the chairs never got any closer than those 3 meters, eventually we left.

Pherazone Pheromones Conclusion

It has been pretty obvious to me that Pherazone pheromones are the real deal and work incredibly well. With 7 different ultra concentrated pheromones and proprietary pheromone blend it has become obvious that Pherazone is  the best product on the market. What I'm wondering in this situation is why didn't my beloved left jabbing elements of myself pulled the right punch. Why did it never happen? 

Now that I'm asking myself the question my 2 boxing frenzied ninja's were actually throwing right punches all the time! Only at the last second they retracted it out of fear. I am clearly describing that I stopped thinking! Yea sounds like a scared retracted punch), only I didn't act. I asked her to decrease this intensity. I wondered what would've happened if I just acted then. It's interesting right? So you can get: witaah! istia! Or you can get the scared witaah! The last one happens when self-esteem is too low, which it was. Actually, I eventually (16 hours later) managed to get sex with her, even during the sex I still felt insecure. I didn't feel worthy of her wrapping my arms around me. I didn't feel worthy of kissing her and touching her huge and perfectly proportioned boos (and we talked about PO-LI-TICS! once in the 1st min. of meeting xD). I didn't feel worthy of her sucking my dick while she was doing it. Jesus, what a mess I was. It actually detracts from the sexual experience, but that's a story for another time. Get pheromone advice here.

Are Chikara Pheromones Worth it?

Are Chikara pheromones worth it to attract women? It is most certainly about yourself, you are part of the relationship you create with pheromones. It is about embracing and radiating the various values and character traits of a leader. but.. when we sit here and write about relationships, it would be naive to think that it's all about you.. because:

A relationship is most certainly about both parties when using pheromones to boost attraction.

Yes, women react emotionally to them man if that man is dominant and emits alpha pheromones, yes the woman takes on the beliefs of the man if the man is assertive but no matter what, the woman has her own personality - her own challenges - and some beliefs that may counter yours.

If she is at much different of a place in life than you (internally), and if her personality is much different than yours, the relationship will probably not work out. It's not the man's fault or hers.. Ya'll are just not synchronous with your pheromone output.

Not everyone wants the same thing, not everyone has the same core beliefs, not everyone has the same personality - (has the same type of humor, enjoys to do the same things, is passionate about the same things) .. all of these need to be taken into account. Learn more at


I find many girls around me asking for my attention, but I am extremely selective because I do not want to commit any of my time or attention or $ on a girl that is not as perfect as a match to me as possible when I’m wearing pheromone colognes.

My Observations on Pheromones

When you said that we are both focused too much on girls, I was bringing up the idea that it takes 2 for a relationship to work with natural pheromones. For the context that the OP brought up, he was asking about the dynamics of his relationship. So I was talking about the validity of being synchronous with the person that you're dating while using real pheromones.

In my mind, you always focus on yourself and that's the only way to have anything substantial. When you focus on yourself, you are then able to share as much of you as possible.. And when coming form this place, you need to be with someone that is as focused on themselves as you are - and someone that is as congruent with your level of growth as you are (and personality).

For the other part "Social BS of 'intimacy through natural pheromones only' - that is something that I seek - a monogamous relationship. I find extreme amounts of value in a bond that is built between 2 and focusing on that bond and cultivating a culture between you two and growing at the same pace.

Yes, many people say that this is a bond of ruin - this is a bond that dissolves, but I believe that if you join into this relationship both at a high level of growth and congruency, then it will be successful with pheromones.